to fix compile errors on Fedora 40

deprecated since at least python 3.12

and improve error checking when parsing positional arguments

and fix missing comma

and add/remove a few entries

Source: https://www.blacklistmaster.com/blacklists

i.e. just a few of the alive ones as that alive list currently also
contains many dead ones

Source:
https://multirbl.valli.org/list/

i.e. just what is still alive

Source:
https://github.com/matteocorti/check_rbl/blob/0262c7104267c8555e80dea8e2d1347df0c7a485/check_rbl.ini#L1-L161

i.e. the small subset that isn't dead for many years or obviously broken

Source:
https://github.com/kuyint/rbl-check/blob/8cd9e1301385dd31f82ce7fae6e5043e020541cc/rbl_check.sh#L17C10-L71C65

cf. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_DNS_blacklists

cf. https://datatracker.ietf.org/doc/html/rfc5782#section-5

i.e. what is still alive.

Many of the DNSBL blcheck includes are dead for several years.

Source:
https://github.com/IntellexApps/blcheck/blob/b055a8a6d6be6d4160bccaef9ace87d68e602a9d/blcheck#L44-L162

to avoid noise in mem-leak check tools