Implement new method distanceSquared, between a double vector and an adouble one

This is needed for the new gradientflow application.  The standard 'distance' method
doesn't cut it, because it is not differentiable near zero.  Therefore, even the
differentiable expression 'distance*distance' will fail to be differentiable for
an automatic-differentiation system.  I think in the long run we should replace
'distance' by 'distanceSquared' everywhere it is used.

Unfortunately, this patch is hacky: it only adds the method for the double/adouble
combination.