Use plain std::vector<double> for element energy gradients

This is what dune-function mandates.  We don't actually use
dune-functions here a lot, but it is still nice to stay in the spirit.
Also, I am thinking about using dune-functions bases for *some*
indexing work in the future.

Plus, I hope that getting rid of the blocking will improve run-times
of debug builds a little bit, in particular in the
LocalIntegralStiffness class.