CosseratShellDensity: Depend on grid element or intersection

Currently, densities only get the type used for coordinates
of the integration domain.  However, this is not enough:
The complete domain must be known, and this domain can be either
a grid element or a grid intersection.

As a first small step, this patch introduces ElementOrIntersection
as a template parameter of the CosseratShellDensity class.