There are two important changes:  First of all, the new class implements
the `dune-functions` interface rather than the deprecated one based
on inheritance from `VirtualGridViewFunction`. Secondly, the new class
does not hard-wire geodesic interpolation anymore.  Rather, you can
give it interpolation classes which then govern how interpolation is done.

This change was long overdue.  It was now needed to make
gradient-flow.cc compile with the post 2.9 version of dune-fufem again.

Previously, they all inherited from LocalGeodesicFEStiffness,
which was weird, because none of them implemented first or
second derivatives as you would expect from something called
'stiffness'.

According to Hanne, this is needed to turn 1d harmonic map heat flow into true
curve-shortening flow.

Hardwiring the weighting here is very hacky.  Something more flexible and
general will need to be implemented eventually.

This are needed by the gradientflow code to implement the implicit Euler method
for an L2 gradient flow.